Monday, January 24, 2011

Baby #3

Yep, it's true....baby #3 is on the way. Mark and I are pregnant! Our third child is due in the middle of July, which means we are in our 15th week of pregnancy. I felt fairly yucky from week 9-13, but now that I am in the 2nd trimester I am feeling much more like myself.  So far everything looks good with the pregnancy; we have not seen our little pumpkin on ultrasound yet, but the heartbeat is strong. I go in again this Friday for another checkup so hopefully everything looks great then as well.

I know this news might sound crazy to those of you who have been following our story for the past 2 1/2 years.  I agree, it will be a little wild to add another child to our chaos, yet we are very excited and we felt the timing was right. We took this step mainly because we really want Charlie to have a sibling close to his age that he can play with. Don't get me wrong, we love Ruby from the bottom of our hearts and so does Charlie, but she won't be a sister that Charlie can go throw a football around with. Charlie will be 2 1/2 years old when his little brother or sister is born and we think that will be a great age gap.  Also, we have a great babysitter who helps us out almost 20 hours a week and Ruby will be going to school part time this spring.  All these things made us feel that this was the right time.

God is good; we have peace, joy and contentment that can only come from Him.  We are so thankful for this new little baby and I think the pregnancy is a sign of us moving forward with our life. For so long after Ruby's adoption we were in "survival" mode; we were grieving and just trying to keep our heads above water.  Now, for the most part, we have accepted things with Ruby and we have discovered a new normal. That doesn't mean it is always easy, but there is peace in acceptance. We are excited to see what God has in store for us in the future! Praise Him for the gift of new life.

"I don't know what the future holds, but I know who holds the future" - Unknown

22 comments:

Dustin and Jenny said...

Congrats Kelli!! You NEVER have to justify a new life!!! God is the creator of life and His amazing hand is in all of this. I am thrilled for you guys. You both are amazing parents and God has and will equip you with everything you need. Hope you start feeling better and have the energy you need!

HollyMarie said...

AWWWWW Congrats guys!!!! What exciting news!!!

jonna said...

Congratulations Mark and Kelli. I love what Jenny said and I couldn't possibly say it better, so I'll leave it at that!

Trish said...

yay!!!

Gretchen said...

Congratulations!!!!

Deb said...

Praise God!! So happy for you!

Denise Bryant said...

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!!!!

Demarie said...

Congratulations!!! God is good, and He will continue to watch over your beautiful family!

PletcherFamily said...

Congratulations! Can't wait to hear about your new little one.

Unknown said...

Congratulations Kelli and Mark! What a blessing to be able to welcome another child to your family--prayers for a healthy pregnancy and a smooth transition into being a family of 5!!

Shaun and Courtney said...

Hooray!!! SO, SO excited for you guys! We will be praying for a great pregnancy. We love you! - Shaun, Courtney and Kaylee

Sarah said...

what an great blessing! You guys are awesome parents and I know this baby will bless all of and all of you will bless her/him.

Julie Linn said...

Yay for another TenHaken baby. You guys are such great parents, and that is one very blessed little boy or girl. Love you!

Shadley said...

Beautiful news! So excited for you Kelli!

Kevin said...

Of course we are thrilled at the Schonewill house. Couldn't happen to nicer people!

Sharon S. said...

We love the thought of another baby around!! One more to love on.
Love Mom

Unknown said...

What can I say? Another TenHaken to love on!! What could be better!?! :-)
Dad and I are thrilled, as you know, and pray daily for a healthy baby to arrive in July.

Miss you & Love you even more, Mom

KimC said...

Congratulations! I am so happy for all of you!

Nina_VK said...

Congratulations, Kelli!! How exciting!! :)

Stephanie said...

Congratulations! So excited for your growing family!

Mikala said...

CONGRATS Mark & Kelli! Thrilled to read the news of another baby on the way! God is blessing your richly!

Lynette said...

Kelli,we just got home last night from our first ABR satellite in Florida (session #2 for us). What great news! I'm so happy for you guys. What God calls us to often seems "crazy" from the outside looking in. But I would have it no other way. When we step out in faith and do something "crazy", we will experience God's faithfulness to us in ways we never would have before. Congratulations!